- “Do you always mask insults with humor?”
- Pat them on the shoulder and say: “It's obvious you are under stress. Is there anything I can do?”
- Mention an acquaintance of yours who is always putting others down and make the observation that people who do this suffer from low self-esteem.
- Thank the person profusely for pointing out what's wrong with you and lay it on thick until they get uncomfortable.
- Laugh (purposely misunderstand them) and tell them that you are going to tell all your friends about their remark.
- Give a big yawn and glance at your watch. (They see that their remark didn't get a reaction.).
- “We are so alike in some ways, aren't we?” (This is particularly effective if someone has made an insulting remark about your weight.).
- Ask the person to repeat what they just said. Then ask them to enlarge on it. Tell them you still don't quite get it and keep asking for more details.
- “Have you always been this way?” (They'll be left wondering what you mean.).
- “Are you on medication for that?” Shake your head sadly.
- “By the way, I've heard of a program for people like you. It's called Effective Communication Skills.”
- Give them a pitying look and ask if you can get them an aspirin.
When Someone Insults You: 12 Neat Comebacks
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