Rules for asking a women for her number | ¤ Dating Guide Online ¤

First of all, don’t leave your phone number and ask her to call you. Some guys think that make them special because the women have to call them blah, blah, blah but seriously…

I don’t know what they are thinking. There is a dating manual out there that teaches men to hand out business cards to as women as they can because a few of them are bound to call. Stupid. That’s all I’m going to say.

As soon you turn your back, your business card is going to get trashed.

Digits Rule #1:

Never offer your phone number instead of asking for hers.

If a chick asks you for your number instead when you ask for hers, do not fall for it. She’s going to throw it away.

Digits Rule #2:

Do not let a girl take your phone number instead of giving you hers.

Here are my counters for women who want to take my number:

Dating Technique: How To Counter Women Who Take Your Number

1) Just smile and get her to trade. It’s only fair. You can even do it jokingly, “Oh come on. I’m only going to call ten times a day.” Most women don’t want to give out phone numbers because it’s a big invasion of their privacy. And that’s why if you can see through this and joke about it, you will have gone a long way already.
2) Bust her and say “Oh come on. You’re just going to show it to all your girlfriends and then toss it away.”

In theory, you should ask for her number AFTER you’ve talked to her for a while. (And got along) If she sees you as an interesting person, she will probably want to give you her number. And if you don’t click with her, there’s no point getting her digits anyhow. Remember: it’s always easier to give a number to an interesting new “friend” than a stranger you’ve met for 30 seconds. As soon as the conversation get REALLY interesting, tell her you have to leave but would like to continue talking to her at another time. There. You’re almost guaranteed to see her again. But if she clearly does not like you and you still keep on asking for her digits, you’re just setting yourself up for rejection, get it?

Digits Rule #3:

Only ask for a girl’s number after you’ve talked to her for a while AND got along.

Also, remember getting the digits is not your only option nowadays. Don’t forget email and instant messenger nicknames. Women give out emails much easier because…if you turn out to be a freak, they can just block your address or get another hotmail account.

Digits Rule #4:

Try to get her email and IM nicknames.

As soon as you get her number or email, get lost. I mean it. That’s no point in hanging around since you have her contact info. Hanging around more could mean messing up and losing your chance with her.

Digits Rule #5:

Leave as soon as you get her number.

And how long should you wait before you call? I would say at least a five to six days. Why? So she’ll be wondering why you haven’t called yet and be even more eager when you finally do. DO NOT call her right away. It will make you seem desperate. Good thing only comes to those who wait, so patience, young Jedi!

Digits Rule #6:

Wait at least 5-6 days before you call her!

When you call her…please do not leave any messages on her machine. Please. My friend Jenny told me how she got home after a short trip one weekend and found 5 messages from the same guy on her machine. Needless to say, she was very annoyed.

Digits Rule #7:

Do NOT leave any messages on her machine or send her any text messages. Call her from a pay phone if you don’t want your name to show up on her Caller ID. DON’T call her too often!

Also, don’t call her to talk. Only call her to ASK FOR A DATE. Guys only get phone numbers so they can ask for dates, and women know it. So do not call her just to “talk”. She will think you’re the biggest wimp on earth.

Digits Rule #8:

Only call her to ask her out!

THINK about what you’re going to say BEFORE calling her. Have the time and location ready before you ask her out. In fact, have two times ready. Say “Let’s have dinner Wednesday night or Friday night at eight. What day is better for you?” This way it will be less likely for her to run into time conflicts and you will still be in control.

Digits Rule #9:

THINK before your call. Have at least two times ready for the date in case she can’t make one of them.

If she turns you down, really listen to what she says. If she makes a counter-offer, like “Sorry I am busy on both days. How about we go out on Saturday instead?” then everything is still all right. But if she says something like “I’m busy, but how about some other time”, that’s a rejection. You can forget about her and toss her number away.

Digits Rule #10:

She either counteroffers or she doesn’t go.

Another trick women may use to fool you is the “Can you call me the night to confirm.”

Ha! She’s just using you! She’s either not interested at all or just using you as a back-up plan. If she can’t find a REAL date that night, THEN she will go out with you so you can pay for dinner.

Digits Rule #11:

Don’t fall for the “Call me later to confirm” trick.

Finally, shut your mouth and hang up as soon as she agrees to go out. You don’t want to mess up. Save everything you want to say for the big date.

Digits Rule #12:

Shut your mouth and hang up as soon as the date is set!

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